I just came back from a Jain Convention and from visiting my
parents in Cincinnati. As soon as I landed in NYC, I felt different
than usual. I realized that feeling filled up by the love of my parents
really placed me into a new mindset. From there, I went straight
into a 3-day workshop with my business coach.
I now feel even more revived. There is something so extremely
powerful about getting support and letting people guide you in your
life, especially people that have achieved what it is that you want
I decided several years ago that if I am struggling in some way in
my life, I wouldn’t do it alone. I would get support and that
decision has lead me down the FASTEST path to:
Feeling cherished in my relationship
Allowing my friends and family support me
Making multiple 6 figures in my business
Being able to take vacation whenever I want
Working from anywhere
Owning that I am the creator of my life
And I am going to get bold with you. I see WAY too many women
that are single and looking for love and women within relationships
trying to do it all by themselves — OR keeping love on the back
burner, thinking it will just take care of itself.
The truth is: every single human being on this
planet yearns to be loved, cared for, and understood.
Yet, everyday we make decisions that isolate us — that make us
feel like we have to do it on our own.
At work, a co-worker asks if they can help us with something
and we respond by saying we can handle it.
Your mom asks you, “What you want to eat?”, and you think,
”Why does she ask this all the time?” and get annoyed or simply
say, “I don’t want anything.”
A friend asks if you need help with a party you are throwing and
you say, “Nope, I am good.”
I get why you do this.
Either you want it done your way, you don’t want to be
disappointed if someone doesn’t follow through, or you are afraid
that you will be a burden to them.
Well, this is attracting in a whole lot of loneliness. And many of
you are doing this all over your life.
What is going to change this pattern so you can
vibrate from a place that attracts in all kinds of love?
This week, you TELL ME! What is going to change this for you?
Because I know you have heard this quote by Einstein before:
Insanity is the doing the same thing over and over again, and
expecting a different result. And the Kavita modification is: If you
are getting the same results, then you aren’t doing anything
differently — even if it feels like you are.
Tell me your answer down below. That’s your Lovework for
this week. I want to hear from you.