Author: Kavita

3 Things You Must Tell Yourself after A Break Up

I got a question last week from Sneha who just broke up with her boyfriend of a year and half. This is what she writes : I’m doing well generally but I get extreemeeelyyyyy stuck and frustrated sometimes when I think about how we ... READ MORE

3 Signs He is Not Ready To Get Married

I absolutely hate seeing women in relationships thinking that their man is ready for marriage, never confirming this, and then driving themselves crazy with the waiting process. It is the worst place to be in. To know you love someone ... READ MORE

Does unconditional love exist? My take!

There was a time during my marriage when we were close to calling it quits, where I was wishing for unconditional love from him, because I felt like I was giving it. I would say to myself, “If he really loved me then he would….” I was ... READ MORE

Are you seeking pleasure?

THE SCENE OF THE CRIME This past week was a little crazy for me. My husband and I were looking for apartments near Kallang Riverside and here in NYC. I am pretty tired of the apartment we are currently in and have been waiting to find ... READ MORE

He Won’t Commit, Why, and How To Get Him To

Are you in love with a man that is dragging his feet to commit to you? OR Is your man simply not committing to the things you want most in life, even if you are engaged or married? Both of these predicaments come from the exact same ... READ MORE

Have You Lost Yourself? How Best Friends Can Help

I had dinner with my oldest and best friend last night. Just to give you a sense of the age of our friendship, our families were friends when we were in diapers, but we weren’t actually friends until about 16. There is something so ... READ MORE

Open Yourself UP to Love

If you have ever experienced a break up in your life then this article is for you, that very break up could be affecting your relationship right now! Are you on a mission to not get hurt? Most of us are wired to make sure we are ... READ MORE

Protector or Boss?

Is being bossy good for your relationship? Getting into a relationship that lasts a lifetime or even for several years can be tricky. Little characteristics about your partner that  weren’t that big a deal in the beginning start ... READ MORE

Mind the Love Gap

Have you ever been to London on their subway system, which is called the Underground. All over the Underground you will see “Mind the Gap”. This phrase originated there in 1969 and it simply means take caution while crossing the gap ... READ MORE

If He Is Happy, I Am Happy (Not True)

Have you ever used this phrase, “If he is happy, I am happy”? I sat with a client of mine the other day, and she meekly yet proudly stated “I would be happy if he was happy, but he isn’t so how in the world can I be?” This statement is ... READ MORE