Author: Kavita

Why it’s so hard to tell someone you like them

I was talking to my client the other day, let’s call her Neely. Neely’s been seeing a guy over the last 6 months but just as friends. In the last couple of months, it’s become clear to her that she really likes him and wants more than ... READ MORE

Feeling Sad

Why getting him to pursue you is not the answer

Yesterday, a single friend asked me.. “There’s this guy I’m interested in, and we’ve gone out a couple of times. He’s been traveling a lot and he hasn’t kept in touch. But I will say, when I do reach out he quickly writes me back, and ... READ MORE

Kavita standing on the beach reflecting

Lead with love even if you risk getting hurt.

One of the biggest problems I see facing us in love is that we are terrified of getting hurt, feeling pain, or of making a mistake. This fear keeps us feeling comfortable and safe, and yet leaves us unfulfilled and in a state of ... READ MORE

Ever felt your walls go up?

One of my best guy friends, Matt, was set up on a date with Sarah by his Aunt. Sarah looked up Matt on Facebook and Matt looked up Sarah, and they were both interested in being introduced, so Matt’s Aunt made that happen. Matt made the ... READ MORE

The one conversation that will scare and transform you…

Two weeks ago I sent you an email about how the mother of one of my closest friends was dying of cancer. And how, in the last couple of months I guided my friend to ask her Mom questions about their relationship, so that my friend ... READ MORE

She inspired me with her courage

This is what one of my closest friends texted me and it hit me right in my heart. As I said in the text, there were immediate tears. Now, today’s post is a little different than most. Today I am talking about the most influential ... READ MORE

I wish I had known this years and years ago

A couple of week’s back I spoke at a fellow love coaches event where I was asked to tell my own relationship story. I shared about the big breakthrough that happened right before Hemal and I were close to calling it quits and how the ... READ MORE

What if you couldn’t hurt him

Just the other day I went out with my niece. She is single and looking for love, and she said something I hear so many women say: “It’s really hard for me to tell a guy that I’m NOT interested, or that I don’t see a future, because I ... READ MORE

Talking to my guy friend

Even men go through what you’re going through in love The other day me and a close friend that I grew up with were hanging out. He is still single and looking for the “one”. We will call my friend, Niraj, to give him some ... READ MORE

Conscious Parenting with Dr. Shefali Tsabary

About a year ago now, I watched Oprah interview a woman named Dr. Shefali Tsabary on a book she wrote called, The Conscious Parent. Oprah said, in her 25 years of interviewing, she had never heard such revolutionary, spot-on advice ... READ MORE