Category: Communicating with men

How actions DON’T speak louder than words

How actions DON’T speak louder than words…

I’m guessing you’ve experienced a man you like do one of these things… Not text back Cancel a date Show up late Stall in asking you out And after he did that you thought: “Well, actions speak louder than words, so he must not be ... READ MORE

How do you choose between more than one man?

How to choose between more than one man

Sigh, I know. It’s a terrible problem to have, dating more than one good man. So much so that you don’t know who to choose. But my sarcasm (and your friends jokes about what a “player” you are) aside… Dating multiple men who have ... READ MORE

insecurities pushed him away

I pushed him away because I’m insecure

Have you ever pushed away a guy you really liked? What if I told you that you didn’t do anything wrong. Would you believe me? My Client Mamta didn’t. Mamta was dating this guy long distance for about 6 months, we’ll call him Samir. ... READ MORE

The one thing you can’t text or say to a man

The one thing you can’t text or say to a man

Okay, I’m just going to get right into this because I had two examples of this mistake in the same week! I was talking to a client of mine, Kathy, and she was telling me how her brother and one of her friends started dating (let’s call ... READ MORE

I had to explain myself after that story

Last week’s post stirred something up. I received comments about how I was being controlling with Hemal and how getting upset over a trivial thing like fish was absurd. I also received lovely comments like, “That post really inspired ... READ MORE

Kavita's sharing what to do if you're wondering how to stop wasting your time messaging with a man online?

Should I meet him in person?

I have been deep in creating mode this week. It feels good. We are creating a new communication product for all of you. We have created th 6 mindset shifts that can help you communicate with men easily. Doesn’t that sound ... READ MORE

Kavita looking silly on the beach

Are you afraid to look stupid with men?

Today I want to tell you a story about my client Kelsey. Kelsey is a powerful woman who works to raise millions of dollars for nonprofits. If you were to meet her on the street she would have the kind of outfit you would love to have ... READ MORE

bad boy

Here’s why you are attracting the bad boy …

Ah, the bad boys. It can feel like something mysteriously attractive about them since what seems like the beginning of time. Connection with them is off the charts, but talk of commitment makes them super uncomfortable. And that super ... READ MORE

Kavita standing on the beach reflecting

Feeling sad and lonely? What if that was okay?

When you are sad, do you resist it? I’m going to level with you for a second. Most of last year I was sad. There were lots of moments I tried to talk through it with friends and it just wasn’t going away.  I was resisting it BIG time. ... READ MORE

I put myself out there, why don’t guys approach me?

This week I want to know if you’ve ever felt like you put yourself out there but never get approached by the right men. Have you ever had nights where you get all dressed up and ready to go out with your girlfriends, hopefully to meet ... READ MORE