Category: love

I had to explain myself after that story

Last week’s post stirred something up. I received comments about how I was being controlling with Hemal and how getting upset over a trivial thing like fish was absurd. I also received lovely comments like, “That post really inspired ... READ MORE

Why people lie (especially in love)

This week something happened between and Hemal and I that most may think isn’t a big deal – but for me it was. Hemal lied about something. As I tell the below very personal story, recognize that my story isn’t going to be your ... READ MORE

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How to stop being jealous

I want to take today to talk about jealousy in relationships. It is a totally normal occurrence, yet when we aren’t able to figure out why it’s happening or communicate in a healthy way, we can often get in our own way. I was talking ... READ MORE


I miss my ex, how can I get him back?

One of the toughest decisions when it comes to love (okay, there are a ton) can be getting back together with an ex. Even when you know it’s what you want, how do you find out it’s what he wants? How do you know you won’t end up back ... READ MORE

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Keep questioning why you are still single?

I was talking to my client Lori earlier this week. She’s 50 and hasn’t been in a relationship for years. As we got started, I asked her what she thought was stopping her in finding true love. She answered by saying, “I don’t know. I ... READ MORE

Kavita standing on the beach reflecting

Feeling sad and lonely? What if that was okay?

When you are sad, do you resist it? I’m going to level with you for a second. Most of last year I was sad. There were lots of moments I tried to talk through it with friends and it just wasn’t going away.  I was resisting it BIG time. ... READ MORE

Do quality men even exist?

For Valentine’s Day, Hemal was out of town. He travels off to Toronto every week for work. He flew in last Friday, the day after V-day, and he had bought tickets to see the Broadway musical, Wicked. It was off the hook! I loved the ... READ MORE