For the conversations to be healing, the conversation needs to come from a completely new energy. This energy is sitting inside of you already; we just need to unleash it.

Most conversations you have in your life with anyone, especially ones that feel vulnerable with loved ones, are often coming from an energy of trying to get them to understand you or trying to change them.

Most people argue with me over this, but when we break it down, they realize, “Wow I had no idea!”

The conversations are coming from a “prove to me I’m right” or “fix the other person” energy. This is leading more with the ego, which often gets us results like people getting defensive, dismissive, ignoring, or even lashing out on us.

I get that with our parents, those that raised us or family members, sharing and opening up feels super tender because we’ve been hurt so much by their lack of emotional intelligence or self-awareness.

That’s exactly why you can’t just have these Healing Conversations on your own; there are too many triggers.

Think about the conversations we’ve tried to have?

Maybe in your love life you tried to bring up something to a guy you like, or you had a fight with your boyfriend, or tried to bring up stuff with your parents, we usually say the wrong things when we are triggered.

It then turns into fighting more, offending the other person, or we feel offended. Often resulting in a lot of guilt, anger, or upset.

What we teach in Soul Level Love, sets you up to have a conversation from a completely different energy.

We help you access an energy, that I call daughter space, that helps you transcend the ego, accessing a love that has your parents or family members respond in a positive way that you NEVER expected.

Remember, these conversations aren’t about your parents being any different. We don't have any control over that, and we don’t need that for these conversations to be healing and freeing for you.

And, you will ABSOLUTELY have support on exactly what to say and how to phrase things with your parents because every situation is unique, that is why we have so much one-on-one support throughout the program.

The best part is once you know how to have one Healing Conversation, you have the templates to know exactly how to keep having Healing Conversations in your life.

**Reminder, without these Healing Conversations your Karmic Patterns cannot be released, keeping you in a cycle of unknowingly settling for the wrong men. Without having these Healing Conversations it is really hard to release these Karmic Patterns.

You might be thinking, “Can’t I just journal, visualize, meditate my way out of these Karmic Patterns?”

You’re probably feeling that way because these conversations “seem” scary and uncomfortable.

Maybe you’re someone that’s conflict averse or an introvert or just private. Well, here’s the thing, relationships are built, connected, and sustained through communication.

If you have a lot of fear and anxiety with opening up, this is precisely why Soul Level Love is essential to your growth and in getting unstuck in this part of your life.

Knowing what, why, and how to communicate EMPOWERS you to navigate dating, men, and relationships. There’s a confidence that gets embodied, allowing you to be self-expressed and ask for what you need and want.

We have to go to the source, where these Karmic Patterns originated, and actually re-pattern the brain, specifically the subconscious, so that your protection mechanisms easily fall away.

This will help you open your heart, speeding up the process of having your Soul Level Love walk into your life.

I like to say, “What’s more scary than having these conversations with your parents or family members? Not having them because then you’re stuck in these Karmic Patterns that hold you back and keep you stuck from experiencing love and life to its fullest”.

I talk a lot about this in Video 3 and Video 4. If you haven’t watched them make sure to do that now.

That’s exactly why this is essential for your growth. To stop looking for safety outside of you to feel comfortable to express yourself, is something I watch even the boldest of women struggle with in dating and relationships.

They are confident in their work but when it comes to men and relationships, things are messy and confidence seems to fall away.

That’s because the same skills that got you ahead in your career, can actually hold you back in love.

When you start to feel the safety within you, to be vulnerable with whomever you choose (that’s what Soul Level Love helps you do), you can open up and not fear judgment, that’s when you know if you’ve chosen the right man for you.

So this process is essential to your growth.

That’s why women say to us that they’ve seen more results in their love lives in 3 weeks than in 10 years of therapy. We create a tight container, a safe space for everyone to share openly and vulnerably.When people do that, there’s a huge transformation just by that small, but big, act.

The group size can be anywhere between 20 - 40 women.

You can still do Soul Level Love, you just have to have one or more family members who you can talk to about your childhood. If you have access to aunts, uncles, grandparents, stepparents, or siblings, that’s all you need to release the Karmic Patterns we uncover for you.

We will show you that whatever situation you have with your mom or dad, or those that raised you, we have conquered it all.

You might feel…

My dad is completely unavailable emotionally.

My mom is a narcissist.

I’ve never really talked to my parents about anything on a personal level.

They just get defensive and blame me for everything.

I haven’t talked to my dad in 10 years.

No matter what your situation, we have dealt with it. Literally, anything and everything under the sun.

There’s no parent situation we haven’t been able to support someone through.

Because it’s not about them, it’s about releasing something for you.

On the flip side you might be thinking…

My parents did a great job; they have a beautiful relationship.

I’m close to my parents.

Do I really need to have a healing conversation if my relationship is great with my parents?

The answer is YES.

Because you have translated A LOT around what love and safety look like through them, which has created unconscious rules too. No one is free until we uncover and release these Karmic Patterns.

If you’ve done therapy, read books, listened to podcasts or done other courses, you’ve most likely discovered that there’s a part of you that, with men or within relationships, feels like “you’re not good enough.”

What most people don’t know is that this belief is actually a part of a Karmic Pattern. It was created a long time ago, not just from the first or last love that broke your heart.

This was instilled during your childhood, setting into motion the kinds of men you’ve chosen along the way, and how much they show up for you.

Remember, Karmic Patterns are the LIMIT to what you can receive in your love life right now, until they are released.

In Soul Level Love you’ll discover that this is still the tip of the iceberg. There are specific experiences from your childhood that have this bubbling up to the surface in specific situations, sabotaging love without you even knowing it.

In Soul Level Love we support you in uncovering these childhood memories, even if you don’t remember a lot, and help you have Healing Conversations with those that raised you. So, these feelings of “not being good enough” and for some “being too much” no longer are in the driver’s seat of your love life.

And when these “not good enough” or “too much” feelings are released, what you’re capable of receiving expands exponentially, without having to be more “feminine,” but by actually being more of your authentic self.

Simply put, dating more people with your current Karmic Patterns only makes you attracted to the same kinds of men you've dated or even married in the past.

Having a checklist of values and criterias for what you want in your ideal man, and then having a matchmaker find someone that fits that list, only works AFTER you’ve uncovered and released your Karmic Patterns. The lists alone do nothing. You will unknowingly still choose men that ultimately can’t show up for you.

Remember, things are always good in the beginning. Always. But throw in years, kids (if you choose that), and then you see someone's true colors.

But in Soul Level Love, through the Karmic Love Process you open up to a whole new quality and connection with men.

So many clients have said to me, “I’ve seen more results in just 3 weeks of SLL than what I received from 10 years of therapy.”

Therapy can be great in becoming aware of your patterns. They can show you how your childhood played a role in why you feel a specific way, or why you’ve felt stuck, or anxious.

They can give you hacks and tools, but most people that have done therapy for years, still have the exact same life. Nothing has really changed.

They are still triggered by the same things, and because of therapy, they can tell you WHY they are having the reaction they are, but they are still triggered and have no clue how to actually change it.

That’s because a lot of therapists are not trained in relationships specifically. A lot of therapists don’t even know what Karmic Patterns are, how to uncover them, let alone how to release them.

But one thing I know for sure, this is a die on the sword statement, is that without identifying and moving through your specific Karmic Patterns, your capacity for love is LIMITED. Your capacity for intimacy is LIMITED. Your evolution/growth is LIMITED.

It’s essential to go through the Karmic Love Process to truly transform how you connect with men and how to keep love, when it’s right.

We (your coach and I) want you to have results, and we hold the intentions for what you want in love through the entire program.

This isn’t a situation where you come in for a session, and address the problem at hand. We are thinking of you even when we aren’t talking with you, strategizing on how to get you the results you signed up for.

We are invested.

Many women find love within the program. Many women find love shortly after the program. Remember, what you learn in Soul Level Love is not just about finding a man, it’s giving you the tools to keep that relationship healthy for the rest of your life.

No matter what, when you release your Karmic Patterns, you’re infinitely closer to finding that love. If you join this program, you will put yourself on that path. You cannot meet this person until the Karmic Patterns are released, that's why nothing you’ve done this far has worked.

So, picture 6 months from now, if you do nothing, you’re still dating within your Karmic Patterns. You’re still attracting in emotionally unavailable men, even if you date like a crazy person 6 months straight. Without clearing the Karmic Patterns, you’re still in the same place, and the quality of men stays the same too.

Versus.

If you’ve cleared your Karmic Patterns, now the path is clear and the man that is at your level, that can hold all of you, cherish you, can come in; you are so much farther ahead.

So, what I can promise you is…

I don’t have a crystal ball; I can’t predict when you’re going to meet your person…

But what I can promise you is when you clear your Karmic Patterns, it clears the way so your perfect match can find you, not to mention giving you the skills to make it last.

Because when you understand how to identify your triggers, and Karmic Patterns, and understand how to have these Healing Conversations, nothing can unconsciously ruin your relationship. You are now equipped with the tools to have a healthy relationship long term.

You don’t just want to find someone as quick as possible, you want to find the RIGHT one for you. Without clearing these Karmic Patterns, you won’t be able to see this person.

So, the question is…

How long do you want to keep dating within your Karmic Patterns? How long do you want to keep dating the same men over and over again? How long do you want to stay in the same cycle over and over again? How long do you want to start dating, get excited, feel disappointed, then take a break, and come back to the same place over and over again?

Are you tired of being in the same place? If you are, then Soul Level Love will help you transform.

Again, we can’t predict when you will meet him. I’m not a psychic and often they can’t either. But I do know and believe, 100%, that clearing your Karmic Patterns will call in a love that makes you feel like the luckiest woman alive.

I understand. When you’ve tried it all and you don’t have this extraordinary relationship to show for it, it can feel like you’ve failed, or like you’re broken, or something is really wrong with you.

Well, I’m here to tell you, you’re not broken. You haven’t failed. Trust me.

Here’s the thing, if you find yourself saying to yourself, “I feel so behind” or “I feel like I’m missing something” or “I’ve failed,” these thoughts are actually symptoms of Karmic Patterns.

So, YES, there’s been a Karmic Pattern most likely keeping you from even seeing the results from the other work you’ve been doing.

Because I know, it’s not like the sessions, retreats, and courses haven’t worked. No matter what you did, I’m sure you learned something from it.

But, when you haven’t truly released your Karmic Patterns, you continue to feel stuck. Here’s what I mean. Imagine a sunflower trying to grow in the desert. It’s not supported to grow there.

The ecosystem isn’t made for it to prosper and bloom. But if we surrounded that sunflower with a greenhouse, irrigation, rich soil, and other plants, would it bloom and grow? Absolutely.

That’s how I want you to think about what’s been happening for you. You simply didn’t have the proper ecosystem to fully integrate the other work, so you could feel successful in your love life.

But uncovering and releasing these Karmic Patterns literally creates the greenhouse, water, and soil that you need to BLOOM. In fact, it will help you even reap the benefits of all the other work you’ve been doing too.

Releasing these Karmic Patterns will open the doors to a healthy, secure, loving man to walk through the door. Who’s encouraging of your dreams and success and fully chooses you for exactly who you are.

If you’ve been single for years, divorced for years, or just gotten out of a relationship, no matter where you are in your love life, you have Karmic Patterns.

You could’ve had an amazing childhood or the worst, it doesn’t matter, you still have Karmic Patterns.

To be honest you were born with Karmic Patterns, some are ancestral and passed down, and some were unconsciously translated in childhood. We just need to pinpoint a few of your Karmic Patterns and heal them, to completely alter how you show up in love, and the quality of men that show up too.

Looking at your Karmic Patterns and releasing them, is breaking generational trauma, it alters what your children take on (whether you have them now or not), it alters how you see your own worth, and how you relate to everyone and everything around you. It’s powerful work.