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Want to text him but afraid you’ll look needy? Here’s what to do.

I remember when Hemal (my husband) broke up with me before we were married. It was after 4 years of being together, and thinking he was going to propose and instead he told me he wasn’t happy and he needed space.

I freaking hated that word SPACE.

Like what does that even mean?

I remember thinking, space from what? And of course the only answer I could come up with was space from me.

But that made no sense. I loved him, I understood him, and I supported him so how could he want space from me?

That feeling made me do some interesting things to try to win him back.

I called, even when he hadn’t picked up the first time. I sent him gifts reminding him how much I knew him. I showed up at his door unannounced. I know I know. I sound crazy, right?

Well, most people would have said that and in fact they did.

But what they didn’t know is what was driving me internally, and what they couldn’t know was that I was okay embarrassing myself, putting myself out there and letting Hemal know how much I loved him, because even if he didn’t come back to me it was important for ME to know that I had given it my all.

It was important for me to know that I said what I needed to say, so I wouldn’t have ANY regrets.

The thing is that people are so afraid of looking needy, scared of getting hurt, that we do anything and everything to protect ourselves. Now of course biologically the sole purpose of the brain is to keep you surviving and keep you safe.

When it comes to LOVE and evolvement it is ALL about not being safe and taking risks that feel uncomfortable. {Tweet This}

And my heart innately knew this.

I could get over embarrassing myself, I could get over showing up at his door and getting rejected (which happened).

What I would NEVER be able to get over is knowing I didn’t try to get answers for myself and show him my love.

So what annoys me SO MUCH, is when we are in a space of knowing that we have a connection with someone (we maybe even fell in love or were on the verge of it and he isn’t responding the way we want, our loved ones say to us:

He is being a jerk!

Forget about it, Let it go.

I don’t know why you are being so foolish – don’t reach out to him!

Don’t give him the satisfaction of knowing you care.

I know they are saying it because they love you and they are trying to protect you from getting hurt. But protection doesn’t help you move forward or get to the REAL answers so you can move on in a healthy way.

Protecting your heart gets you regret and feeling like you’re stuck.

Now, I want to make a distinction here. What I did in terms of showing Hemal I loved him was coming from a place of GETTING ANSWERS FOR MYSELF, and when I got my answer, I stopped.

I didn’t keep trying to convince him he needed to take me back.

You are allowed to seek out answers for yourself.

What triggered me this week to know I needed to bring this up again was my client Sarah who was getting all this advice from friends and she was denying what her heart was saying.

She had spent some really connected, amazing dates with this man who was also going through some things at work.

In Sarah’s mind, he had pulled away and hadn’t texted her in almost a week.

She told me, “Kavita, I promised myself I wouldn’t text him again because he’s being a total jerk and ignoring me. I cried for like an hour yesterday because I feel so confused about what the heck is going on and then I got mad at myself for even caring!”

Have you ever felt like this?

I’m willing to guess you are just like Sarah and that it feels SO GOOD when there is finally someone who comes around and starts taking care of you, like this guy was for her.

Sarah is the kind of woman that really takes care of everyone – her friends, people at work, her parents, and she just wants to feel like she can have someone that is there for HER when she needs them.

So of course, when a man comes along who demonstrates that he has the capacity to support us, it feels like a whole world opens up for us.

In this situation, Sarah was still feeling a connection with this man but forcing herself not to communicate.

So I said, “The moment you are waiting on him or feeling that sense of rejection and withdraw from him, its like the scenario takes away your power and now you feel like you have no control over the situation and feel helpless. That’s not a healthy place to be either.”

I went on, “I want you to reach out to him and just say ‘Hey I know you’re going through this work thing right now and I can feel that you’re disconnected a bit. I just want to say that I’m here to support you and looking forward to when we can connect again.”

She resisted for a second because she felt like she was “beating a dead horse” but she sent the text.

Within minutes got this response back:

“Im sorry I didn’t reach out, I’ve been so deep in my work stuff. Having your support is really amazing. Can I see you soon?”

In that moment, Sarah realized she had made up this whole thing in her head that he was ignoring her on purpose and that he didn’t like her.

Meanwhile he was still in the same space of being into her, he was just going through something he needed to go through himself.

What I want you to to get from my story and from Sarah’s is that you have the option to CHOOSE saving yourself from REGRET, which is an open hearted space, rather than saving yourself from EMBARRASSMENT, which is a closed hearted space.

When we give ourselves permission to listen to our open-hearted side, even if we feel stupid or embarrassed in the moment, it is better to go THERE than to shut down, close your heart, dismiss someone, and then have regrets.

And way too often when we have the choice, we choose to save ourselves from embarrassment and have regret instead because of pride, ego, or those damn dating “rules”.

Because when you can ask yourself:

Did I do everything I could have done?

Did I say what I needed to say?

Did I express everything I needed to express?

And answer YES to those questions, then you did everything you needed to do.

So what can you do to operate from an open hearted place instead of in fear of rejection or embarrassment?

Here are 4 go-to open-heart tools:

1) Say what you want to say:

When you find yourself feeling compelled to want to communicate with him and you stop yourself – do it anyway. Ultimately if you seem desperate and needy who cares? If he is right for you, it won’t freaking matter. Send the text, email or make the phone call because you will feel back in control and more empowered in the situation.

2) Flip the script:

When you create a story of how the man who’s being distant doesn’t care, create a story of how he does. How has he made you feel taken care of? How has he been there for you?

3) Compliment him even when you’re feeling hurt:

When you’re feeling rejected, it is super likely that he has no intention of doing that. If you’ve had a ton of fun with him and you’ve never expressed that, compliment him and let him know. Our tendency is to not say anything and wait for him to make the move, but letting him feel supported and admired will open things up for him.

4) Forgive yourself for feeling upset.

Stop beating yourself up for feeling confused. This is normal.  Even if you’ve been a mess in front of someone you love or care about, it’s okay. You are operating from a place of love and just from not understanding.  So be kind to yourself instead of beating yourself up because you feel like you look stupid. Having regret is stupid.

Taking these steps will allow you to feel lighter and more empowered  ANY time you run into this situation with a man.

To really integrate this, your Lovework is to tell me in the comments over on the blog if there is anyone out there that you have something left unsaid with or that you feel like you need answers from. What statement do you want to make to them?

Then go make it!

I am totally here to support you.

In Love,
Kavita

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  • ting

    Hi Kavita,

    This is so useful for me. I’m trying to be independent and not reach out, but feel like missing something inside.

    Thanks for this note.

  • Phylliss

    Kavita,

    Thank you. This post was exactly what I needed! The situation hadn’t anything to do with a text or a love relationship. It was related to my very honest, and somewhat vulnerable, response to a superior and a colleague with whom I am involved in a Leadership Seminar at work. I said what I wanted to say, with an open heart, and risked being embarrassed. But I failed to “be kind to [myself] instead of beating [myself] up”. I hope that “taking these steps will allow [me] to feel lighter and more empowered ANY time [I] run into this situation with” anyone.

    • Kavita

      This is so great Phylliss, and they will definitely help you to feel this. Be kind to yourself and lots of things will open up for you!! xoxo

  • Andrea

    Very helpful as always! I had a connection with a man quite a while ago, but he did the whole disappearing act. I beat myself up so much over how reacted when he dissed me…offered an apology but it didn’t change his response or lack thereof. My friends tell me to let it go because they want to see me happy instead of hurting over a guy they think is a loser. But deep down in my heart, I believe it was just bad timing. So I often talk myself out of calling him because I don’t want to look foolish or desperate. But I have NOT expressed everything I needed to say and didn’t do everything I could have done–not to win him over but to live without regret. I don’t want to get involved with some other guy, when I still have feelings for him. I want an open heart, but I’m afraid to call him…considering writing him instead.

    Thanks!

    • Kavita

      Go for it Andrea, we are here to support you!! xoxo

  • Golsa

    Dear Kavita
    I’m Golsa and I am 18 years old…I have been in love with one boy since when I was a child now we are grow up but I still love him so much.
    Thinking about him every day and every second…
    I’m scare so afraid to show I care, I don’t know he is in love with someone one else…but one of his friends said that he scare to come and asked you cause he isn’t sure he can continue or not….
    My world is him and I love him but don’t know what to do…
    Show him,or not oh God

    • Kavita

      Golsa, You will not know until you speak to him directly. Even if his feeling isn’t mutual at least you will know and can move on.

  • Goli

    Dear Kavita
    I am 18 years old…I felt in love with one boy that he is 2 years older since I was a child
    I don’t know he like me or not his behavior is makes me that I don’t became sure about it
    He has lots of friends that they are girls…
    I’m scare so afraid to show I care…maybe he is love with someone else,and don’t like me…it makes me crazy,what can I do??? I love him and love and love just love him so much but I don’t know what can I do

  • Jennifer

    Thank you for the article. I too am currently in a state of regret, so much was left unsaid. We had a definite connection and he was trying to get my information to talk to me and I was literally pulled away from him by my friends, who didn’t agree with us talking to one another. I literally left him standing there dumbfounded. I don’t have any way of contacting him now, except through Facebook, but I don’t want my other friends to see if I friend him because of how risky the situation is.

  • anonymous

    Ive been dating this guy for about 3 months… I will add i am Also dating 2 other guys as well but he is the one i like the most out of all of them we get a Long great and i can tell he really likes me but hes been giving me the Hot and Cold treatment lately last week he asked me to promise him that we will spend the whole weekend together i agreed but when that weekend came he dissappeared i confronted him about it and he told me things were moving too fast and he had a lot going on he said he really like me a lot but right now is just bad timing for him which i get because he just had a loss in the family and Also he got out of a relationship about 7 months ago so i get i told him i completely understand and i didnt want to pressure him into anything that was Sunday it is now Thursday and i havent heard from him but what i didn get to tell him is that i wasnt completely ready for a relationship either i really still want to continúe to talk to him but Im afraid its too late now what should i do?

  • Brenda

    Hi. I have just stumbled across this post. Who on earth are u kavita. I read ur story and it sound a lot like me. Me and my ex have been split since June, yes June. We really clicked when we met, I’ve been hurt in past and he has too. He has been divorced from his wife for 3 years. She cheated a lot. One of him 2 kids with her is not his. We told each other everything and a real connect. Then he had a wobble and needed space. Then we got back on track. But the ex would do things to try and split us up. I used to be strong and say ‘ sort it or I’m gone’ he would sort it and we would carry on. But one time she text him saying that she wanted to get back with him. Even tho he said no and I know he never would, I fell apart. I would cry and act needy and desperate. In the end he split with me saying he didn’t want to hurt me anymore. I know if I had of been strong we may have been fine. So that was June. We have been friends since, but it’s always me who texts him or turns up at his house, he’s always nice and we get on. I feel I can’t seem to shake this needy label he has stuck on me. I have considered every part of our relationship, and I want to try and be the woman he met and stick that way. But I don’t know where to start or what to say or how to try and pull him back, or just get a chance to make him see I am strong again. My best friend always says to just forget it. But I just can’t. I know he’s what I want. When I read ur story I started to cry cuz I thought I was the only one who keeps trying after so long even if I know he doesn’t see me the same way now. He did once, surly I can get that back somehow. Sorry I’ve gone on and on

  • Angela

    I am currently in the same situation. A man I’ve been seeing for a year and a half didn’t respond to I love you in the way I had hoped. He works two jobs and is in a chiropractic school full time and has children from a previous relationship . his finances are not great. I told him I love you and he the next day he texted that with all the chaos in his life it wouldn’t be fair to me . he also said it would have been easier if I would have said I hated him. His life is quite chaotic and there really is isn’t enough hours in the day for him..he usually gets maybe 3 hours of sleep day. I texted that I understand and at this point I would never expect more…this being from a man that I would hear from multiple times a day . my question is to pursue this or walk away. He really is this busy and always issues with kids .

  • Jenn

    Hi Kavita! Thank you for this post. I met a wonderful guy at a wedding and we went to Napa together after but he’s in medical school across the country for the next three years. He was unsure if he wanted to stay in touch but since then we’ve been in touch with decent regularity. I sent him an email about three days ago and he hasn’t been in touch for almost four. I feel silly for freaking out but I feel really sad that perhaps he doesn’t like me or something or isn’t interested in anything because we live so far apart but I don’t know what to do. I want to tell him I understand that for now our circumstances are challenging but that I think it would be short sighted to not stay in touch even just for the enjoyment of staying in touch despite how busy he is and I will be because I’m also starting grad school. I feel scared that he’ll reject me or say he’s not interested at all because he had been unsure initially as to whether he wanted to even stay in touch.
    Jenna

  • Karen

    Hi! What a great blog! I am sure so many of us can relate. I am at a loss myself. My boyfriend of 6 months quit his job and went back to his native country to try and sell his house so that he could make a better life here in the US. Even though we have had tiffs, we still love each other because we work through them. Last time I spoke to him he said he loved me 10+ and loved me even when I was mad – that was 20 days ago and I have not heard anything from him. I don’t know if this relationship is over or I should just wait and see what happens. Before he left he said he needed time to change his life and asked for 30 days. I have no way of contacting him as he did not pay on his prepaid phone before leaving.
    Any suggestions? Is this over? So much I want to say to him – I am by no means angry or upset with him, I just want to know where we stand.
    Thanks.

    • Kavita

      HI Karen, He seemed very specific with needing 30 days and since it has already been 20, 10 more shouldn’t make a big difference. Use those 10 days to ask yourself, what you want. If he calls after 30 days and say I’m coming home will you be ok with that?
      If he doesn’t call after the 30 days, you decide to move on and he comes back ready to be in a relationship with you, will you be ok with that?
      You can write him a letter/email, so you get what you need to say out even if you don’t expect a response. The letter is more for you to express yourself and state clearly what you need.

  • gina

    Hello, I’ve been seeking guidance from websites, friends, and any book I can get my hands on after my ex broke up with me. We were dating for just about a year when he broke up with me the end of January. He said it was due to financial reasons. He was going to have to work more and since we didn’t get to spend enough time together as it was we were going to spend even less time now and he didn’t want to do that to me. So instead of giving us a chance to come to a compromise, he just broke up wih me. I then see he’s going out of his way to go out to places. He had no time to see me but he can go out and do all of these things. I had to unfriend him from social media because it made me sick. So now I haven’t spoken to him. He owes me money from a trip we were supposed to take together in February. But I don’t want that to be the reason I contact him. I really just want my boyfriend back. Need advice please!
    Gina

    • Kavita

      Hi Gina,
      The first thing you need to do, is get understanding for you. And for this you will need to speak/contact him. Do understand that what he may say, may not be what you really want to hear and may not bring you back together but there is relief in understanding. So use the script and reach out and find out!

  • linda

    I have been in a relationship with this guy for 4 months now. at first he used to invite me to his place and I used to refuse because I was so bitter at men and told myself I am done visiting them, I prefered him coming to my place and he does come every weekend. But the relationship is just between the 2 of us. I approached him last week and said I want a break up because he wont introduce me to his family or want to meet mine. He does not talk of our future together etc, he told me he I could leave for he was not ready for a commitment. After that we didnt talk for a week then he came back saying he missed me and wish I could give him a chance and leave things in his hands for like 3 more months and see what he does. he said he sees a good woman in me and he has hopes of getting married. We spent the weekend together again and he was more into me than usual, caring you know stayed longer and he took me out.But I really feel like I want more out of this relationship a commitment or something. Am I being forward ?

  • Mandy

    Hi

    I was dating this wonderful guy for a few months. He was divorced 2 years prior to meeting me and I was his first serious relationship since. He was being very forward about how serious he was about me- he was the one talking about settling down, but for some reason it didn’t feel too quick between us. Sometimes I was quite reserved in the way I had expressed how I felt about him and on occasion he did comment on it, but I think he knew how I felt.

    I went away on holiday for a fortnight; we had a really romantic goodbye at the airport- and I came home to a different man altogether. He seemed so distant- he would still respond to me when I texted or asked to meet but I could tell something was wrong.

    He then told me about some serious family issues that he was going through one night and that had also affected him as a child. He was forced to move quite quickly from his family home. Since then he completely withdrew emotionally from me like he was almost embarrassed for being so vulnerable. He wouldn’t even take my calls. He then finally responded by text stating he was in a state and was confused and that he still cared about me but it was complicated. He said it had had happened over time (implying he wanted to break up) but that the whole situation with his family had taken its impact.

    I then sent him a heartfelt text on the way I felt about him, and that effectively I was leaving the door open for him when he felt ready if he felt he needed space. It’s been 5 weeks and I haven’t heard from him. Do I reach out? I really miss him and I can’t imagine life with anyone else. Did he get scared? Was life too much for him or did he go off me when I went away? I want to text but I don’t know how to start things off.

  • Liz109

    I have heard some say there is no such thing as closure when it comes to love relationships. I don’t agree. I agree with your view. It is important to be yourself and do what you need to get closure. In all my relationships at work and in my personal life, I have seen that when you are true to yourself and speaking up from the heart, and not afraid to be embarressed or look stupid, beautiful things happen, and you find peace. Thank you!!

  • Kay

    Hi Kavita,

    Thank you so much for your post. I completely connect with EVERYTHING you said. I too have been a giver my whole life. I have always put people before me and that is my normal and I will always be this person. I don’t date often but when I like someone, I have the tendency to fall hard for the reasons you mentioned for your friend Sarah.

    I have had a crush on this man for 1 year. Finally, he sneaked in his phone number to me and asked for a “meeting” 2.5 weeks ago. At the meeting, he finally revealed he had liked me for 1 year as well and was attracted to me. We were together from 9 pm to 4 am – my best first date ever. He fixed the second date, but had to cancel for work. He has been very busy, out of town every weekend since our first date (medical doctor). Out of fear of looking needy, I kept my texts at minimum 1 or 2 per day. He has always been polite in replying. But I have noticed he only wrote if I wrote. So I decided not to text. It has now been 4 days of no contact. My true feelings are I really want to get to know him more. But I am scared of rejection and scared of looking ‘needy’.

    And of course, every ‘friend’ in the world reminds you how you are not on his priority list and how he is ‘just not that into you’, making you feel even worst about your true feelings. I have really just wanted to write to him and say I know you are busy but I really want to spend some time with you. But I can’t find the right words!!!!!!!!!

    I’m so confused and lost. I loved your blog. Since it has only been 1 date, am I being too needy or unrealistic? But I have known the guy professionally for 1 year and have closely observed him. I truly like him. What should I do?

  • KB18

    Hi, thank you so much for writing this! I dated this guy for about 6 months and we split up around Christmas for very stupid reasons. I haven’t stopped thinking about him, we haven’t stopped texting each other etc. I recently saw him and told him exactly how I felt, that I was still in love with him and wanted another chance. He really didn’t say much and now he all of a sudden stopped texting me last night after I sent him 2 text messages. I’m scared and nervous I may have ruined my chances by saying I was still in love with him and nervous I freaked him out and scared him away. I don’t want to give up on him/us and I find myself wanting to write a book expressing everything but feel that will make it even worse. I haven’t sent another text since last night but it’s killing me ha-ha.

  • Toni

    I have been in a long distant relationship for a year and a half. We live on different sides of the country but take turns visiting each other every few months.

    I care about thus man very much and he was more eager to show me a year or so ago. He used to send me flowers and the last romantic greeting card he gave me was on mothers day. I understand that relationships change, but i can’t figure out if him pulling away is real or all in my head.

    He is supposed to visit soon, and we have even talked about him relocating to my state to be together. In person he is fine but isn’t as affectionate as I am. But he can be very sweet and romantic.

    We usually facetime every so often, and at first I could tell he was happy to see me. But lately when he agrees to facetime with me, he tells me to call at 10 or 11 pm his time so when I call he is always too tired to feel engaged in the time we are supposed to be spending together.

    He is brings up how i always want to use up all of his data and he says I am being selfish. I don’t understand why he would even think this way, so I told him everything I was feeling.

    I told him that I deserve the love back that I give and i won’t settle for anything less. I asked him how he could confused with me wanting to spend time with him and communicate more for selfishness. I told him straight up, and he said he didn’t want to end the relationship, but he had to go to bed because he was tired.

    I text him afterwards and told him that if he really wanted to be with me then he needs to start showing me. (It’s not just facetime, he has also seemes irritated with a lot of things I say)

    I know he cares about me, but I’m worried I might have made him feel too uncomfortable to really respond to me now. He is quiet aND i am always the one who says too much. I really would like advice if I should contact him in a few days if I haven’t heard from him by then.

    I care about him so much, but I don’t want to scare him even more. I really don’t know what I should do. Please help.

  • Diana

    I started dating this amazing guy, i really like him a lot. We connected since the first day we met, however, i ruined everything. I called him one night that i was drunk and he totally kicked me to the curved the next day. He said he was going to take a break from dating, which it broke my little heart. I texted him the other day and he didnt reply back, i am assuming he things i am immature or drama. However, i am not like that at all, it just happened to be one of those nights but i scared him away. He is a mature down to earth guy so im assuming my actions scared him away. We had a great time while dating and i felt that connection, want to call him or give it another try but i dont want to sound needy or desperate. I read your blog above and i decided to send him a gift with a note that said ‘ i don’t care about ego, pride or those damn “dating” rules. I hope he doesn’t take it in a bad way. I feel like if he doesn’t appreciate that gesture then he doesn’t deserve a woman like me. I feel better not because i went of out of my way and did whatever i could. Feels good not to feel that ” what if” or regret.

    • Kavita

      That’s AMAZING Diana. So proud of you. Getting lear feels so good.

  • Nina

    Hi Kavita! I really LOVE reading these blogs! The following statements RANG SO TRUE with my recent breakup situation:

    “Forget about it, Let it go. Don’t reach out to him!” I would tell myself this, and even had a therapist tell me this!

    “I know they are saying it because they love you and they are trying to protect you from getting hurt. But protection doesn’t help you move forward or get to the REAL answers so you can move on in a healthy way.”
    “Protecting your heart gets you…feeling like you’re stuck.”

    I felt STUCK this whole summer :*( I didn’t get to release what was in my heart to the person that I wanted to tell it all to. I was telling EVERYONE ELSE, except him.

    “…GETTING ANSWERS FOR MYSELF, and when I got my answer, I stopped. I didn’t keep trying to convince him he needed to take me back.”
    “You are allowed to seek out answers for yourself.”

    So I did it, I contacted him, but not directly at first. It had been months after our split but I couldn’t stop feeling guilt and regret about my part in how it ended, so as I was rereading our old texts to see why I even cared so much I remembered he loved sweets, like nobody’s business, so I sent him a mini bump cake and a cute flower bouquet anonymously, with a note that I THOUGHT would imply it was from me…wrong! He didn’t catch my joke on the note…so I had to do it…I had to tell him it was from me, so the next week I did.

    When I had the guts to face the situation head-on (I was shaking like a leaf!!) I finally felt like I said most of what I was wanting to say all summer. It was a HUGE release…but then came the part of “how will he react?” Luckily it went well, and it seemed like he was getting answers to some things that he had been wondering but never asked (probably cuz he just wanted to move on and not feel hurt). I felt a sense of relief that was missing the last few months, like I finally said my piece and the ball is outta my court. Though this left me vulnerable in a different way than being “stuck”, it was still a huge relief 😀 I wish I would’ve said what was on my mind sooner, it would’ve saved me a TON of heartache and a crappy summer. On the flip side though, it helped that it was after a long time had passed post-split for things to cool down because when he saw me after months, he was happily surprised and almost excited to hear about what I’ve been up to, chatting about his summer, like old friends reconnecting 🙂 <3

    The weeks following that were a bit up/down, but I still feel good that I said what I felt in my heart.

    "…we choose to save ourselves from embarrassment and have regret instead because of pride, ego, or those damn dating “rules”…"
    I saved myself because of fear…but it only got worse as time went on.

    "Did I do everything I could have done? Did I say what I needed to say? Did I express everything I needed to express?"

    1) Say what you want to say
    NO JOKE, I literally heard John Mayer's song "Say" the day I went to talk to him!!! And it gave me a huge push!

    2) Flip the script
    I had been doing this all summer, but in my own head, not out loud to him, like I needed to

    3) Compliment him even when you’re feeling hurt
    One thing I did, but not enough of when we were together

    4) Forgive yourself for feeling upset.
    Now I do!!! But before, when it was all INSIDE my head/heart, I didn't.

    "Having regret is stupid."
    "Taking these steps will allow you to feel lighter and more empowered ANY time you run into this situation with a man."

    I feel LIGHTER!!! I wish I had read your blog in April!!!

  • Essie

    I have been in a relarionship for three months now we were so much in love but suddenly he went off tryin to call him but he doesnt recieve my calls nor even txt back after 3weeks i got hold of him and he tells me he has so much stress and he doesnt want to involve me in his stresses so i give him alittle time to fix everythin…i agreed but i feel i miss him and i wanna text him what do i do he said he’ll look for me if he feels he is ok???

    • http://kavitajpatel.com Kavita J Patel

      Essie, you just need to straight up and ask him if he is still interested in this relationship. You might not like the answer, but it will give you clarity on where the relationship stands. This way you can move in the right direction with this relationship. Thanks for sharing.

  • Mi Angel

    Thank you for this advice. I have been searching dating advice websites to understand my situation. My situation is very similar to your client’s example. I have been trying to be cool and make him “chase” me (because that’s what the other dating advice websites say to do), at the same time feeling miserable and upset. I followed your advice and received the same response as your client within 2 min of sending the text. Thank you, thank you, thank you for helping me believe I was not acting needy.

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    Hi Kavita,
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    anyway, about a month ago he started falling into a depression and avoiding me. He wouldn’t return my texts, and when he did, he was very short. I kinda went off the deep end (dropping by his house at 2am, crying, sending drunk texts) and obviously this seemed to push him farther away. We had loose plans to have breakfast last week but he never contacted me to confirm or anything. My last texts have gone unanswered.
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    So what do you do when youve done the opposite by being very vulnerable and open with a guy, tried to be understanding yet honest about your needs and let him know often about how amazing you think he is. The only thing i’d asked of him is to spend more time with me during a rough time for both of us and then poof he’s just disappeared and deleted my number after more than 4 months of what seemed like such a close connection together .No break up lines no fights nothing just disappeared. I’ve been considered sending him an email or text him with all the questions i have but don’t know if it would even matter to him anymore as he seems to have moved on. Its been a month now since we havent been in touch but i miss him so much everyday and it hurts to think that he could just forget me and everything we had so easily. Him deleting my number makes it clear to me that he doesnt want anything to do with me, and I dont know what I did that was so bad for him to never even want to hear my voice ever again and it kills me inside that I will probably never see or hear from him again.

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    • Joni

      Thianna, I am just curious if you ever heard from him again? A very similar thing happened to me.

      • Thianna

        Joni, I decided to text him and yes he did respond. It was small talk mostly but offered no explaination. I tried not to get my hopes up that we would communicate again but I did and was disappointed again. It’s just so confusing because we didn’t have an argument and we got along great and overnight it was done. Now I’m left confused and hurt with kids that ask for him constantly it sucks

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